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Rocky

I love your statement "You can allow circumstances - like an uncooperative economy - to happen TO you, or you can look for the opportunities to work in better ways, opportunities that better times ironically will not always reveal." Difficult times always make us look at changing. I have a quote I often use "Anxiety creates change" I am not sure where I heard this, but it is absolutely true. Many of the best decisions I have made in my life have come at times of turmoil. For instance, losing a job willmake us think about our skills, abilities, weaknesses, and areas we can improve. If we do not go through difficult times we can often fall into a comfort zone and become complacent. I don't like going through difficult times any more than anyone else, but the difficult things I have gone through have ultimately made me better in the long. I Thosetimes forced me to think in diferent ways and to move beyond my comfort zones.

Rosa Say

Rocky, your comment caused me to pull a book from my shelf in memory of something I'd remember reading in Abounding Grace, by M.Scott Peck. He wrote,

“I am often asked why I began my first book with the sentence; ‘Life is difficult.’ My answer is always, ‘Because I wanted to combat the Lie.’”

“The Lie is that we are here on earth to be comfortable, happy, and fulfilled. Is that not our very purpose for being?”

“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers —or even for God.”

Martin

Fascinating site and well worth the visit. I will be back

Rosa Say

Aloha Martin, thank you, and welcome!
We shall look forward to your visits and more dialog.

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